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Welcome to another addition of my Friday randomness! Also, Happy Valentine’s Day!

You guys, we are almost one week of Vishnu’s night float rotation (out of 2), and I’m ready for it to be over.  This may be our last time ever experiencing nights (FINGERS CROSSED!), but man, when his entire schedule flip flops, it feels like ours does too!  Also, I just miss my partner-in-crime!

Because Vishnu sleeps during the day, I need to figure out how to keep Kaiden out of our room on Saturday and Sunday.  He loves to ‘go see’ dada, which never ends quietly.  I’m thinking a museum date and maybe even lunch out on one or both days may be in order!

Anyways, I still have approximately 20 hours to figure all that out.  Let’s get on with my Friday favs…

ONE

If you follow me on Instagram, you know that I challenged myself to read 20 books in 2020.  You guys, I’m already on #6!  Getting a library card definitely helped push me a long because a lot of the books I put on hold are popular, so essentially, I need to read fast! 

Take book #6 for example – You Were There Too.  I got a notification on Wednesday telling me I have to return this book Friday.  I was only 60% of the way through at the time, so that forced me to read my little heart out on Wednesday and Thursday nights!

TWO

Speaking of challenges, my sister and I decided to take on a ‘no dessert February’ challenge.  And dare I say, it’s going really well so far.  If we do end up eating something sweet (as in a dessert and not ketchup), we owe the other person $5. 

I plan to share more about why I’m doing this, the results, my new plan regarding desserts, etc. very soon.

Wish me luck for the second half of the month!  If I make it, this will be the longest I’ve EVER gone without eating dessert.

THREE

Speaking of sweets, did guys know there’s a Food Network show called ‘Chopped Sweets’ now?  It’s essentially like Chopped but all about making dessert like creations.  The episode I happened to catch had ingredients like lamb vindaloo, which some chefs turned into chocolate mousse.  I LOVE FOOD NETWORK!

FOUR

There’s no way to transition from that to what I want to share next, so…#sorrynotsorry!

I wanted to share a quick potty training update because I think I figured out the key to making this transition a success…CONSISTENCY!  No matter what you do, you have to stay consistent.  It doesn’t matter if your kid has accidents or is regressing.  Stay consistent!

Trust me, it’ll be easy to just put them in pull ups during the weekend and kind of half-ass the whole thing…but don’t!  You’re only prolonging something that can actually be accomplished in a relatively short amount of time. 

In terms of Kaiden, he’s doing well.  His issue is getting to the potty in time, especially at school.  We’re working on it!  He’s also gotten to a point where he doesn’t like to get his pull up wet/dirty, so that’s a move in the right direction!

I hope that by April we can have him trained so that he doesn’t need a pull up at naptime.  Wish us luck!

FIVE

Ok, so no transition again…just a cool new gadget!

I love cooking don’t love the prep (i.e. chopping vegetables).  I always say that I wish I could just magically have my veggies chopped by someone/something else.  That would make so much more fun and a lot quicker too.

Well when my IG friend Aartee shared this chopper in her stories, I knew I needed it!  She’s a busy mom who could also use all the shortcuts she can get, so I thought, if she likes it so will I!

And guess what…I love it!  This thing is perfect to chop up onions, potatoes, tomatoes, peppers, etc.  I still have to cut the veggies into smaller chunks, but it’s not as labor intensive as having to chop up everything by hand. 

If you cook a lot at home and hate chopping as much as I do, get this!  It will change your kitchen game!

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High 5 on a Friday

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Guys, how is it already January 17, 2020!? It’s really wigging me out with how fast this year is already flying by! And honestly, when I look at my calendar, it doesn’t look like it’s stopping any time soon!

Anyway, let’s get right to it – my five things this Friday…

One

My sister and I are headed to LA next weekend to visit my grandparents, and I could not be any more excited – to see them and spend some quality time with my sister! We don’t have any major plans…just trying to squeeze in some authentic Mexican food! My grandparents live with my aunt and uncle, so it’ll be so nice to spend some time with them too.

Unfortunately, I’m not taking Kaiden with me. He’ll get some good old quality time with his dada. I originally wanted to, but then thought against it when I realized I would have to do everything on my own. Of course, my sister would be there, but I don’t expect her to wake up two hours early (time difference) with us or go comfort a crying Kaiden in the middle of the night like I would of Vishnu. Not to mention all of his stuff, etc., etc. This would not allow for optimal quality time with my grandparents, and that’s the whole reason for the trip. Maybe I’ll regret this decision once I’m there, but I’m thinking it’ll be a-ok!

ALSO, on a related but separate note, I’ll finally get to try Nishi Mami’s Cookie’s when I’m in LA! I placed my order with the other day, and I’m so excited to do a taste test with the family! More to come!

Two

I owe you guys a 2020 reading/book update! I’m deep into the Nicholas Sparks’ book that I didn’t actually read (returned the other one to the library), and I’m really like it. It’s called Two by Two, and it’s a little different than his past books. Still very romantic and dramatic, but it has a different/normal feel to it. I’ll share more when I’m done!

Speaking of the library, two of the books I placed holds on are ready for pickup – The Next Person You Meet in Heaven and Ghosted! I’m so excited, but also a little nervous because this means I need to get my read on and fast! Maybe this is the fire I needed under my butt to make nightly reading a priority.

Three

Vishnu and I never got K a Christmas present. That was very intentional. He got so many new toys from his grandparents, so it was a little unnecessary. My BIL and his fiancé got K a set of these Manve magnetic tiles. Kaiden did really well with them at first, and then he was getting increasingly frustrated every time they stuck to one another. It was getting to the point where I just had to hide them. I then noticed that K played with Magnatiles at school, so I asked his teacher if he gets upset when they fall apart or when things don’t go his way. Of course, he’s at school so he’s an angel. Ha! I asked Vishnu if he thought K would do better with actual Magnatiles, and he said, “Let’s find out.” So we got him this set and called it his belated Christmas gift. He still gets frustrated but not as much. I can that a win! Now Vishnu and I can play with the other set… 🙂

Four

I’ve talked about it a bit on Instagram, but Kaiden has been LOVING his weekly soccer class. We went to a free ‘tryout’ class when he was 18 months, and it was a disaster. But now? He runs around on his own and sometimes doesn’t even need or ask for us!

It’s kind of cool to see your kid excel and enjoy something without you having to push it. We’ll see how long this lasts, but for now, I really enjoy watching him concentrate, laugh, and have fun on Sunday mornings.

FIVE

I recently shared a post on Instagram about my workout system. Essentially, what I fall back on when motivation isn’t quite enough. If you recall, I shared a fitness challenge I did with my friends a while back. Well, now I’m doing that same challenge but with Vishnu, my sister, my BIL, my other BIL, and his fiancé. It’s a family affair!

Essentially, we have to get at least 12 workouts in every month. A workout = 30 minutes of intentional activity. You can’t double up. If you don’t get 12 in, you owe each person who does $5. Simple!

Hoping this, along with my system, keeps me accountable all year long!

Tell me…what are you reading right now? I’m building out my 2020 list and want to include some good reads this year!

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High 5 on a Friday!

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Oh man, what a week!  There’s a reason why I haven’t blogged in a while.

While things were pretty up and down for the past 10 days or so, I’m happy to report that everything is fine now.

So with that, let’s get to my five things for this week…

ONE – I’ll begin with the one that didn’t start out on a high note.  I mentioned in this IG post that I was experiencing a rash/hives of some sort.  I experienced something similar last April, so I knew what this could lead to which forced me to go to doctor sooner than later.  To make a long story short, I ended up having to go on steroids for this random episode of hives because none of the over the counter stuff was helping…at all.  After lots of itchiness and two major ‘attacks,’ I’m happy to report that it looks like this gross (you should’ve seen my skin!) episode is over.  I’m not thrilled about having to take steroids but am thankful to have found something that works for me.  I’m very well aware of the side effects and am definitely monitoring my state of mind, emotional responses to things, and my hunger levels.

You’re probably what the heck caused this.  Well, the short answer is we don’t know.  We couldn’t pinpoint an exact cause last April, and I don’t think we’ll know with certainty what brought on this episode either.  Vishnu and I think it’s our detergent, but again, that’s just an educated guess.  I’ve done the full panel allergy testing, and nothing out of the ordinary showed up.  My doctor thinks I may be one of those people who randomly breaks out in hives every so often. Yay.  I’m going to take the extra step and do a little more follow-up with my doctor before the end of the year because there’s a slim chance this could be more serious.  Here’s the hopefully getting some concrete answers!

Also, I should mention that while all of this was annoying to deal with, I feel very lucky that it was something we could deal with. #silverlinings

TWO – Moving on to happier things.  My in laws visited us this past weekend, and it was a blast!  Kaiden really enjoyed getting in person one-on-one time with his Achacha (grandpa) and Ammama (grandma).  The minute we opened the door and let them into the apartment, he was standing there swaying and smiling!  My FIL attended a conference Thursday-Sunday, which meant his time at home was a little more limited, but overall we got to squeeze in a few fun things and are really looking forward to getting some time together over the holidays when we’re in Atlanta!

THREE – You guys!  I think Kaiden’s going through a major development/growth spurt.  For one, he’s been a little moodier than usual, which usually means something.  But more importantly, he’s talking in full sentences now (for the most part!).  It’s insane.  Every time he puts a subject and verb together with the words a or the, my mind is blown! How is my baby old enough to be doing this already!?

K will also be moving on to the older two’s classroom at the end of the month, and that means he’ll be with older kids (2.5-3 yo).  I’m hoping this continues to help him grow, learn, and develop!

FOUR – The most exciting update I have today is that we leave for Cabo tomorrow!  YAY!  I can’t wait to spend 5 whole days with my family relaxing and reconnecting!  I’ll be sure to do a full recap post for anyone who’s interested (and so I can selfishly relive this vacation for years to come).  Kaiden is super excited about going on an airplane again and going to the beach (his first time!).  Now if I could just get a magic packing fairy to come pack for me!  😊

FIVE – A few days after we get back from Cabo, I leave for London (for another 5 nights).  But before I go, we are getting together with a few of my Chicago friends, their hubbies, and their babies to celebrate Diwali!  More than anything, I’m so thankful for the good friends I have in my life right now.  The friends that just get it and don’t judge.  These ‘normal’ friendships are everything right now, and I’m so thankful that Kaiden and Vishnu also get their own little crews as well. 

Well, you guys, that’s all I have for this week!  Be sure to follow along on Instagram for more behind the scenes type stuff over the next few weeks.  I’ll probably be more active on there. 

Have a wonderful weekend!

High 5 on a Friday

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How is it the end of the week already? Not sure why, but in general, September is flying by. Next week it’s October, people! How?

Anyways, this was another good week. Nothing spectacular, but nice because we got some family time in last weekend and over the course of the week. Kaiden finally seems to be conquering the art of independent play at home (KNOCKING ON ALL THE WOOD!). All good stuff!

With that, here are my 5 random things…

ONE – I made Piping Pot Curry’s Instant Pot Chole Masala, and you guys, it’s delicious! I didn’t even have all the ingredients, but I improvised, and it still turned out great. A definite must make!

I also made these banana oat blender muffins after trying the ones my friend Pankti made. Honestly…these are some of the easiest and tastiest muffins I’ve made to date! Vishnu, K, and I all loved them. So much so that I think I’ll have to make two batches the next time around!

TWO – Let’s talk about Fall TV! Did you guys catch the season premieres of This is Us and A Million Little Things? I don’t want to give anything away, but man oh man, am I excited!!! I love these shows because not only are they human and real, but there are so many layers…

Vishnu and I are still watching the Americans. We just started season 4! Another great show, and thankfully one that doesn’t make me cry!

THREE – It’s time for me to pick a new book or two to take me through the end of the year and all my travels! I just finished How Toddlers Thrive (loved it by the way) but am now in the mood for some good fiction. I’ve heard good things about American Royals, Things You Save in a Fire, and My Friend Anna, and The Silent Patient.

What are you reading right now?

FOUR – It’s been a while since I’ve watched a movie by myself. My sister told me she recently watched Home Again and liked it, so I made that last Friday’s movie. Who doesn’t love Reese Witherspoon in a rom-com?!

I thought it was a good movie. Nothing spectacular but a nice feel good kind of movie. A solid 3.8 stars! 🙂

FIVE – I’m having an off week this week because one of my favorite coworkers put in her resignation. I’m SO SO SO happy for her, but so so so sad for me! HA!

Also, to add to that emotional mess, one of my favorite instructors at the gym is moving. I literally teared up when saying bye to her!

With that, I hope you have a wonderful weekend!

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High 5 on a Friday!

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Another week in the books! And it was a good one. I got a big project out the door for work while kicking off another one. Kaiden just seemed to be extra happy this week. And we have Vishnu back. A simple yet good week!

With that, let’s dive into my 5 things!

I didn’t have any other pictures that went with this post! Even though you can’t see his face, isn’t he the cutest? Look at his little foot!

ONE – Ok, I have a water bottle rec for all my moms out there. Kaiden’s never been a big water drinker, but ever since we got this bottle, he’s drinking H2O like crazy! It’s not completely leak proof, but it does the trick. I’ve been looking for good straw bottle for a while and am so thankful I found this one!

TWO – My friend Shelly started a company to help pass on the Indian culture to her kids. It’s called Khyalo Toys. She sent me her first product, a Diwali book, and guys, it’s incredible! The storytelling, the illustrations, everything. And did I mention that Shelly is a lawyer, a mom of 2, and a wife (#marriedtomedicine). Remind of this when I start making excuses! I’m going to be sharing more about Shelly and Khaylo Toys in future posts and on my IG page, but wanted to share now so you can check out her book!

THREE – Our weekend plans consist of a Friday night movie (for me!) because Vishnu has to work an overnight shift; errands/library on Saturday morning and a play date in the afternoon with a good friend of mine and her son (we’re thinking of letting the dads take over and heading out for dinner and wine because we haven’t had a chance to catch up in a LONG time); and a Sunday morning play date with another friend who has kids around K’s age. Love it when this stuff aligns!

FOUR – I took a strength based gym class this week and decided to up my weights and really push myself. Holy moly! My arms and upper back were so sore the next day. So much so that the next day I walked all the way to the gym for another class but turned around as soon as I got there. Ha! My gut was telling me to rest even though I wanted to push through. But then I had Vishnu’s voice in my head telling me to take it easy and not hurt myself. So treadmill intervals at the apartment gym it was!

FIVE – You guys, bath time in our house has recently gone from fun and easy to chaotic and crazy. It’s hard to convince K to get in the tub, and it’s also hard to convince him to get out. We can’t win!

That’s all I’ve got, guys! I hope you have a fun weekend.

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High Five on a Friday!

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This week’s been a good one overall.  I was a little nervous about solo parenting (Vishnu’s in Germany for a bachelor party), but I think we’re managing ok.  It’s the anticipation that gets me to be honest.  If I can manage that, I’m a-okay.

Anyways, let’s get right to it…

ONE – I could not get over Chrissy Teigen and John Legend’s Twitter war with Trump.  For so many reasons.  And then came Chrissy’s interview on Ellen.  I love her!

TWO – Other than solo parenting going ok, I do have to say it’s been, dare I say, easier than I thought it would be.  Especially now that K’s older and understands more.  Don’t get me wrong, we still have our moments, but it’s honestly fine.  I also took matters into my own hands and made several plans for us over the weekend. Some for me and most for both of us!  Ha!  I figured it’s better to have things lined up than risk him going stir crazy at home.  Cross your fingers for us!

THREE – My grandparents left my parents’ house this week and are now back in California with my masi (aunt).  They took a ton of pics before leaving for the airport, and every single one brought me to tears!  I know how much my parents loved having them around, so it broke my heart that they were already leaving. ~8 weeks went by fast!

FOUR – Toddlers and food.  Enough said!  Overall, K is a pretty good eater, especially at school.  I wouldn’t call him picky by any means.  But when it comes to eating dinner at home, it’s so freaking hit or miss, regardless of how routine our routine is (if you know what I mean).  For example, some days he eats everything + more, and other days, he eats a bite or two and then says he’s done.  I’ve even tried pushing dinner time back, but that doesn’t make much of a difference.  Thank goodness for daycare because at least he eats there! 

FIVE – I don’t know why I steer away from the methods that work for me, but lately, I haven’t been as diligent with my list making.  This week, I started writing everything down again, and it helped soothe my stress SO MUCH!  I felt productive and like I had an actual plan.  So now I’m going back to the basics and writing down EVERYTHING!  Stress begone!

Happy Friday and weekend!  Make it a great one.

High 5 on a Friday!

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Is it just me or do the weeks keep flying by faster and faster? This makes me nervous because it ultimately means winter is that much closer. NOOO!

Anyways, I’m not going to think about all that until at least September! Gotta soak in all the Chicago sunshine while we have it.

Now that we got the weather out of the way, let’s get into my 5 random things for the week…

ONE – While I’m not quite ready to think about winter yet, I am thinking about Fall TV! I can’t wait for This is Us and A Million Little Pieces to come back! I also can’t believe those are the only network shows I now watch live because I used to watch 5-6.

TWO – My BIL (Vishnu’s brother Niel) and his girlfriend Neelam are visiting this weekend! They haven’t seen Kaiden since early February so this should be fun. We’re renting a boat on Saturday and planning a beach trip for Sunday. Hopefully we make it to Nookies as well because I want Ernesto’s Chilaquiles. YUM!

THREE – So we put Kaiden down to sleep between 7:30-7:45. He doesn’t actually fall asleep until 8:30 ish. In that hour, he literally says every word/phrase he knows. It’s hilarious from the outside in! Free evening entertainment! I also think it’s a good time for him to process all that he’s learning and experiencing during the day. I’m currently reading How Toddlers Thrive, and it’s just insane how much growth and development happens in those little brains and bodies!

FOUR – Does anyone else order the same exact thing every time they go to a certain restaurant? Ema is one of those places for me. I always order the Mediterranean Chopped Salad with Falafel. It’s honestly one of the best salads I’ve ever had. Am I predictable? 100%. Am I happy after eating here? Also 100%.

FIVE – If you read one thing, make it this! I found this article via Hitha Palepu’s #5SmartReads and LOVED IT! Such a great and life changing perspective.

If you’re going to read one more thing, make it the blog Raptitude. I recently discovered it and can’t get enough. The writing style, the topics, the comments. It’s worth your time…I promise!

Ok, with that, happy weekend!

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