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My Holiday Philosophy

written by Parita 26 Comments

Please tell me I’m not the only one who gets super annoyed by all the pre and post holiday articles about weight loss, detox diets, etc.  There is nothing wrong with wanting to be healthy, especially during a time of year that’s synonymous with rich decadent treats but COME ON!  A few extra bites of macaroni n’ cheese, stuffing, pumpkin pie, and other delicious foods is not going to lead to substantial weight gain!  I promise.  In fact, I recently read somewhere that on average most people only gain one pound between Thanksgiving and Christmas.  One pound, people!

And in my opinion food is not the only issue.  I’ve read a lot recently about exercising to lose unwanted holiday weight.  Ummm…if I’m not mistaken, the holidays are not even really here yet.  Again, don’t get me wrong…I absolutely love exercise.  What I don’t love is the mindset that people tend to take on during this time of year.  “Don’t eat these foods.  Make sure you do extra workouts to compensate for the extra calories you consumed.  Blah, Blah, Blah.”  I hate it!

I truly believe the holidays are meant to be enjoyed and savored.  We should be reflecting on where we’ve been and where we are going.  We should be giving more than receiving.  We should be saying thanks for all the blessings in our lives.  We should be smiling and laughing more. We should be spending time with loved ones.

We SHOULD NOT be focused on eating a little too much (or too little) or exercising more (or not enough).  Relax and enjoy, people!

Take walks with your family.  Play outside.  Engage in a hula hoop competition with your sister…oh wait, that’s probably just me.  The point is to just move.  Don’t worry about fitting in long runs, spin classes, gym sessions, etc.  If you are able to great, if not, it’s no big deal!

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Also, eat delicious foods that you love with people that make you happy.  But take the time to enjoy each and every bite.

And I’m honestly I’m not just saying this to say it.  I lived it during my visit to Atlanta last week.  My goal was to spend quality time with those I love and that’s what I did.  I fit in exercise when I could (when no one else was home), I ate things I love that probably don’t fall into the “healthy” category, and I enjoyed every single minute of it!

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Apple crisp made with real butter and real sugar…YUM!

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Breakfast by mom – eggs with cheese and buttered toast

And these are just some example of the things I ate while at home (I wasn’t in a picture taking mood).  For example, on Thanksgiving my mom made bean and cheese enchiladas.  Sounds innocent enough, but the delicious sauce was made with whipping cream.  I didn’t stress about it and think about how much I would have to work out to burn off all the calories.  Nope.  I ate a huge serving and licked my plate clean.  It’s not every day that I get to eat that meal!

You see, I love that people are making a conscious effort to be healthy.  However, instead of depriving yourself of the foods you love or overcompensating with exercise, try this – move as much as you can while hanging out with your loved ones, eat and truly enjoy your favorite foods in moderation, and really live in the present this holiday season.  A pound or two or five isn’t the end of the world!  And isn’t that why we make New Year’s resolutions anyway?!

Feels good to get that off my chest! Smile

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Written on November 28, 2012 Related:Food, Health, Inspirational, Life, Self

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  1. Khushboo Thadani says

    November 28, 2012 at 6:26 am

    AMEN, GIRL! I couldn’t agree more! I can understand the obsession with eating less/burning more around the holidays because I used to harbor that kinda mentality but at the same time, I want to shake people who do! It’s sad that food has become the main focus of holidays…of course it’s a huge part but it’s not the only part! Along with eating delicious food, savor the time with your loved ones. We have the rest of the year to eat “clean” (hate that word) and spend our time in the gym.

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:56 pm

      I used to have that mentality as well. And I can fully attest to the fact that it sucks!! I’m not proposing eating unlimited quantities of “bad” foods…just saying that a few bites of your favorite things won’t hurt you. It’s crazy how people think they’re going to gain 10+ pounds in less than a month. I think you should write a post about this topic – I’d love to hear your thoughts!! I’m sure you have some good ideas. 🙂

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      • Khushboo Thadani says

        November 30, 2012 at 12:50 am

        Thanks, P… I might just 🙂 ! We always read about how easy it is to gain 10 lbs but funny enough, it’s pretty damn difficult to gain 10 lbs with a few indulgent meals!!

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  2. IHeartVegetables says

    November 28, 2012 at 7:46 am

    You are SO RIGHT!!! The holidays are meant to be enjoyed! That doesn’t mean stuffing your face at every moment, but it doesn’t mean “detoxing” either!

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:53 pm

      It’s all about finding a happy balance and enjoying the moments. 🙂

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  3. Amy @ Second City Randomness says

    November 28, 2012 at 8:05 am

    I think the thing that most irks me about all the articles about detox and losing holiday weight is that they act like drinking more water, taking a walk or a few minutes of activity after a large meal, and eating a few more vegetables at meals is something new and unheard of. It’s not new and it’s not rocket science…

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:52 pm

      Haha. It really isn’t. I love it when a magazine has something like “the best kept secret to weight loss” on the cover, and then when you read the actual article, it says something along the lines of drink more water or something obvious like that.

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  4. loftyappetite says

    November 28, 2012 at 8:27 am

    I totally agree! It’s so annoying! This time of year shouldn’t be any different than any other time of year. Even though you indulge more, the balance you keep of food and exercise should be the same as any other time of year! The eating articles in December are just as silly as the gym crowds during January. Working out one month a year isn’t going to do anything… just like eating more one month a year isn’t going to make you obese!

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:50 pm

      Exactly. If everyone would stop freaking out and just do what they’ve been doing – a few extra calories would be no big deal. That’s why these articles just kill me!

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  5. Kacy says

    November 28, 2012 at 10:02 am

    I agree! It’s just not worth the stress. I like to joke about how much I overeat, but I still enjoy every bite of it 🙂

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:49 pm

      I pretty much think about food from the time I wake up to the time I go to sleep. Haha.

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  6. Shanna, like Banana says

    November 28, 2012 at 10:38 am

    I 100% agree. Zach asked me what I do for fun this weekend. I told him, I eat. It’s oh so very true. There is nothing more that I enjoy doing than having a wonderful meal/dessert/vino with family/friends. It creates memories and fills my heart. If that means an extra pound, I’d say it’s worth it.

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:48 pm

      I’m with you, Shanna. Good food + good company = great memories!

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  7. juleshealthrules says

    November 28, 2012 at 10:56 am

    Love this! Thanks for putting this back into perspective, I always spend too much time trying to juggle “getting in” my workouts around spending time with my family, holiday parties that should be fun, eating yummy foods that I enjoy, and traveling. I am going to make an effort to just be in the moment and enjoy!

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:47 pm

      You’re welcome! I think it’s good to maintain a balance that works for you AND allows you to enjoy this special time of year. 🙂

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  8. peacebeme says

    November 28, 2012 at 12:26 pm

    I am totally with you! I actually read this psychology study last year about how the increase in holiday articles about how to avoid weight gain during the holidays actually make people gain more weight because they try to over-control things and then just end up bingeing. I never think about gaining weight over the holidays and consequently don’t because I know I don’t have to feel guilty about anything.

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:48 pm

      I agree with that study. Whenever I really focus on what I’m eating and scrutinize it to the very last calorie, I tend to get pissed off and say “screw it.” I can only imagine what this would look like over the holidays. Great point!

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  9. Dixya @ Food, Pleasure and Health says

    November 28, 2012 at 1:20 pm

    I totally agree with you. I think people make a big deal out of this uncecessarily and take stress rather than enjoying the moment, spending quality time with family with good food. We all know holidays involve lot of food, drinking and lack of time for exercise but the problem is most of us fail to plan it ahead. Instead of eating balanced meals and exercising regularly for the rest of the year people give so much attention for the month of November and December- seriously people?

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:44 pm

      Exactly! Why not just build indulgences into your way of living so it doesn’t have to be a huge deal!

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  10. Sig says

    November 29, 2012 at 4:56 am

    Yep totally agree Pari. The couple of days that Evs and I had for our anniversary last weekend (haha coincidentally at the same time Thanksgiving is!!) meant we ate and ate and ate – literally all 3 meals were out. I didn’t stress that I was eating a turkish delight mini-doughnut at one of my fave restaurants or going to town on a chocolate peanut butter tart, because I was spending that time with the one I loved. Just because I am “eating for two” doesn’t mean I should be, but I didn’t stress over it either. Holidays are awesome 😀 Bring. IT. ON.

    PS – It was 38 degrees (err..100 F) today in Melbourne and I may or may not have had TWO icecreams today. Yes I went swimming as well, but those icecreams were so worth it 😀

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:43 pm

      Honestly, enjoy your pregnancy! I can only imagine how miserable it would be to eat “healthy” foods all the time while pregnant. Mommas to be deserve to have fun too! A

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  11. Aparna B. says

    November 29, 2012 at 7:34 am

    I LOVE this post! You’re absolutely right. People do spend too much time worrying and stressing about their day-to-day diets and stuff during the holidays, and yes, it’s important, but at the same time – it’s not! The point is being able to be with your family and if you can fit in exercise, that’s great! But if you even take a walk with your family after the holiday meal, then you’ve done something together and and still spent time together. Great post, Parita!

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:40 pm

      Thank you, friend! Being healthy and making good choices is important to me, but to constantly be thinking about it, especially when spending time with loved ones, is wrong.

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  12. kenthinksaloud says

    November 29, 2012 at 12:20 pm

    Great post! My problem is always with trying to put weight ON not lose it!

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    • Parita says

      November 29, 2012 at 11:39 pm

      That’s a good problem to have!

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  13. Honey What's Cooking says

    November 30, 2012 at 1:59 am

    Love this article.. long and detailed, you certainly wrote it with passion. 🙂 I’m in california at the moment and I’m eating like a pig, and I can tell I’ve gained weight, but I’m so lazy to exercise, nor do I care, because I know I will lose it all once I’m back home and walking to work daily. It’s all balance, enjoy the now, and live in the moment, the weight will come off. This time of year EVERYONE gains a couple pounds, it’s okay ppl. 🙂

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